"I can get my head turned by a good-looking guy as
much as the next girl. But sexy doesn’t impress me. Smart impresses me,
strength of character impresses me. But most of all, I am impressed by
kindness. Kindness, I think, comes from learning hard lessons well, from
falling and picking yourself up. It comes from surviving failure and
loss. It implies an understanding of the human condition, forgives its
many flaws and quirks. When I see that in someone, it fills me with
admiration."
Lisa Unger, Beautiful Lies